Showing posts with label New Year's Eve. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Year's Eve. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

2013 was....



2013 was incredible. I accomplished more than I ever have in my life, I feel successful and accomplished for the first time -I couldn't be more pleased with everything that happened this year, and all of these big changes were very unexpected.

I got my braces off....

Spent 1 month in Chicago....

Spent a week in St Louis, Kansas City, Savannah and Disney World....









We danced in our second Hula recital...

I started ballet...

I met a Detroit Lion...


My best friend moved to Chile and my sister moved to L.A....

I became 'host' to a student from Russia and another from India....
 


I started volunteering at my church...

I got a job that I genuinely love...

My husband had reconstructive knee surgery...

I rekindled a friendship with a girl I've been looking for for 10 years...

My blog was picked up by 5 major newspapers and quadrupled in readership...
 

We redid our living room...

I was hired as a linguist for a nationwide translation company....


We had Cinderella spend the day with our daughter on her 3rd birthday....

We got a new kitten...

We celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary in the ER next to each other with IV's....

I did 4 events out of my house this year...

 

I had loads of other interesting LIFE LIST experiences along the way, many I haven't even had time to write about yet. Each of these adventures and all of the wonderful people I met this past year have changed and enriched my life in many ways. I am unfortunately still having some 'hiccups' with my family but life isn't perfect and other than these disappointments as grand as they may be, my life this year was pretty amazing and I feel very blessed.



Sunday, January 1, 2012

New Year's Passed




Last year I made this statement "Next year is going to be My Perfect New Year’s Eve!" and it was, it was the best New Years I have ever had in my life.


Shannon's moving to Chile party-New Years Eve 2012/2013
2013- At 7h I went over to my friend Shannon's house where she was having her 'going away party' for today, January 1st she is moving to Chile. I didn't think I'd be there more than 1 hour but I ended up staying until after 11h. We were laughing so hard all evening, the night was certainly filled with tears too. Tears of sadness knowing it will be a LONG time before we see each other again, and tears with absolute severe laughter! It was wonderful to catch up with her sister Colleen and her parents, fun to meet new people and then I got to go home to my beautiful daughter and sweet husband. When the ball dropped we smothered our little girl (who yes was still awake) with kisses. It was INCREDIBLE to hear my daughter tell us Happy New Year and for her to give us our first New Years kisses from her, since obviously the past 2 years not only was she asleep but she wasn't yet giving smooches. It was the best New Years I've ever had! As I am reliving the way I spent my past 14 New Years I'm noticing a common trend...and most of them (until my daughter was born) involved large amounts of booze. Ten years ago I would have never thought I could enjoy a NYE party without cocktails and champagne. Instead I stayed up until 3h in the morning cleaning my house, then my daughter woke me up at 8h...it was nice not having a NYE hangover. Not even so much as a champagne toast at midnight and I had more fun last night than I ever had and as a bonus we had our touching moment with our daughter as she helped us count down the ball drop with a big smile of her face. It was so cute to introduce her to this worldwide tradition.

2012- I watched the ball drop with my 14 month old daughter sound asleep in my lap-the second year in a row I got to kiss my most favorite person in the world-it made me emotional. It was just a quiet night with the two of us, my husband had to work.

2011- My daughter was 3 months old and sound asleep in her play yard but I wanted to hold her in my arms at midnight, so a few minutes beforehand I picked her up and kissed her sweet face and I cried-it wasn't a big night but it was such a special moment. It was just us two,  Joel was working.

2010- My husband and I went to a gathering at a friend's house whose father was here visiting from Poland, he speaks little English and I do not speak Polish but I spoke enough Russian to communicate to him. He and I were best buddies all night! I had not even felt like going out because earlier that day the lady I had been taking care of passed away, it was very hard on me. I also remember that we were so stinking broke we had to put the beer we bought on our credit card which took us over the limit-SO glad that's not my life these days!

2009-I had dinner with my family and then my sister and I went up to the bar where my husband bar tends once/week. I almost didn't even go out I was so sick. She and I had a fun time.

2008- Very last minute I invited my cousin over with his girlfriend and other friend, my sister also came over- so there were 6 of us in our 500 square foot studio apartment, they all spent the night. I don't remember why we didn't have plans to go out. There was a colossal snow storm that night. Nathan, my cousin, and I were the last ones standing and at about 3 or 4 in the morning we decided to run to the store to get some cigarettes...we got in my husband's truck and both realized that I was FAR too drunk to be going anywhere, we didn't even take into account the major snow storm or the fact that nothing would be open on New Years Day at 4h a.m.

2007- My husband and I went to a bar with his co-worker and his wife. I was so excited, we bought tickets which included all the drinks and food you could want-I thought it was going to be so much fun...it was ok, there were not many people there...I was a little disappointed.

2006- We went to a party at a friend's house-it was fun.

2005- We went out to dinner with 3 friends, then came back to our place, the couple left right after midnight, my then fiance went to bed soon after and Katie and I stayed up super late and smoked so many cigarettes that it killed my goldfish.....we smoked him to death.

2004-I was dating this guy Phil who was having a party-I really liked him but at one point in the evening WHILE HE WAS HOLDING MY HAND HE STARTED MAKING OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL! I couldn't even leave I was too drunk to drive. Later he told me that he thought I would be into that sort of thing....

2003- I was proposed to under the Eiffel Tower.

2002- Don and I (the one that proposed to me) went over to my friend and co-workers house. We drank and played uno stacko. And I remember insulting her dusting abilities.

2001- Don and I had just started dating and we went to a hotel party with his friends. I remember that it was the first time I had ever worn a thong and I was terribly uncomfortable all evening. The thought of this night is always so bone chilling to me as it was just 72 hours before my car accident-this is why I spend so much time reflecting on that fact that you never know what is going to happen...life seems to just flow along and then in an instant everything can change.

2000- I was 16 and went to a party with my friend Dwayne, I didn't know anyone there....also it was very unsettling to me that early in the night the homeowners completely ran out of toilette paper. I am sure I was just happy to get my hands on some brewskies.

1999- 15 years old, my friend Shannon came over and we somehow obtained Sour Apple Pucker and cigarettes, I remember standing outside smoking and walking around like penguins in the cold.

2011 LIFE LIST ITEMS



Well overall 2011 was productive and certainly life changing-I have changed greatly...I think. I have become more calm, patient and rational. I have realized my mistakes from the past and I am trying to make up for them and apologize to those I've hurt. I am learning to admit when I'm wrong and I have learned how to understand where others are coming from even when I disagree. I've also turned into a bit of a crazy person...or what I simply like to call motherhood. I am even more protective than a lionesse over her cubs. I have decided to address issues that are important to me, which is difficult but hopefully helpful in the long run. I am still grief stricken over the loss of my best friend, my beautiful grandmother and I am desperate to fill that void. I made zero dollars this year for the first time in my life (since I began working at 15 ). I surprised myself at things I became good at- like being mother. I impressed myself with some language goals, like teaching myself Hebrew and teaching my daughter Russian. I rekindled some old friendships that I hope to see grow and last.
    This year it was wonderful to watch my daughter change from an infant to a little girl who runs around, gives kisses and hugs and is able to communicate to me what she wants. I did accomplish several of my LIFE LIST goals which is great and I lost 74 pounds which of course I am ecstatic over but there were a lot of things that hurt my heart this year and are weighing heavily on my mind. My relationships with so many people were destroyed this year and I wish I could say that I suspect they will be resolved in the approaching year but I can't see that happening. There were several things in my personal life that were awful and changed my life in such a negative way, but I am so glad to have started this blog which is all about positive life changing moments. It is so fulfilling to be able to do and write about all my favorite favorite things in life. It's exciting to watch it grow and it is so rewarding to receive such positive feedback-it always makes me smile.
    I hope 2012 is filled with big changes and big moments that I will treasure forever. Happy New Year!!!

THE LIFE LIST GOALS I ACCOMPLISHED IN 2011
1. LIVE IN A HOTEL
2. FEED A GIRAFFE
3. MILK A COW
4. START A LIFE LIST BLOG
5. HOT STONE MASSAGE
6. SPEND CHRISTMAS ELSEWHERE
7. SPEND CHRISTMAS DAY AT THE TOMB OF THE UNKNOWN SOLDIER
8. GO TO THE MOVIES ALONE
9. BOUGHT A FLAT SCREEN
10. GOT A SET OF CAST IRON PANS
11. DIED MY HAIR RED
12. BOUGHT MEAT FROM A BUTCHER
13. WALK 5 MILES/DAY 50 DAYS
14. BREASTFEED
15. GENEALOGY OF MY MOM'S FAMILY
16. DONATED MY BREASTMILK
17. BECAME A STAY AT HOME MOM
18. GAINED RECOGNITION FOR BEING THE BEST HUGGER CHAMPION IN 1991

Saturday, December 31, 2011

My Perfect New Years Eve



This blog and my LIFE LIST are about creating my personal idea of my perfect life, so I thought it would be a good idea to add MY PERFECT HOLIDAYS. I have never had a good New Year’s Eve and I’ve always desperately wanted one! This year will be no different than last year, I will be watching Andy Cohen’s ‘Watch what happens live New Year’s party’ being terribly jealous of everyone who is out at the bar and parties while my husband is at work and the little one is asleep. So these are some of the components to what I think would make for a fabulous New Year’s Eve! Hopefully next year will be my year! 
Happy New Year everyone- have a wonderful evening!

Have to get a limo-NO DUI'S!!

This dress!!!

So these shoes!!

Crystal bangles 

False eyelashes!


Purple sequin scarf

This purse-without the mickey head.

White fur coat

This hair do

These earings, but in silver

Love this nail polish

Plenty of cash for plenty of cocktails!!

To meet tons of new people!

An amazing kiss at midnight

A crowded bar

Thursday, December 29, 2011

New Year's Eve Toasts



"Stir the eggnog, lift the toddy-Happy New Year everybody!"

"Another year is dawning, let it be-for better or worse, another year with thee."

"As we start the New Year, let's get down on our knees, to thank God we're on our feet."


                                  


"Here's to the bright New Year, and a fond farewell to the old; here's to the things that are yet to come and to the memories that we hold."
                           

"May the New Year help to make us old."




"May the best of this year be the worst of next."




"The object of the new year, is not that we should have a new year. It is that we should have a new soul."




"Then sing, young hearts that are full of cheer, with never a thought of sorrow; the old goes out but the glad young year comes merrily in tomorrow."




"He who breaks a resolution is a weakling. He who makes one is a fool."




"Here's to a long life and a merry one
-a quick death and an easy one-
-a pretty girl and an honest one-
-a cold beer and another one."



"As you slide down the banisters of life, may the splinters never point the wrong way."



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